Two of the most consistent hits we get on our LiveOurValuesEveryday.com website are teen peer pressure and teens and stress. The effects of teen peer pressure at schools which push you more and more each year, the effects teen pressure from parents to live up to expectations, various types of teen peer pressure to follow the party all-night-long crowd and the effects of teen peer pressure tempting you to compromise right for wrong. It is a difficult and confusing world for teens and creates alot of teen stress. Teens are required to grow up much earlier and are exposed to mature situations before they are ready to handle difficult choices. Teens facing peer pressure do not know where to turn and lack confidence in many instances.
We encourage every teen to think about who you are and who you want to be as you grow into adulthood. Happiness can be achieved through the values and beliefs you live. A list of teen values and beliefs will determine your character and reputation, the memories you leave with your friends and schoolmates and, ultimately, your legacy. The good news is that the choice and teen happiness is ultimately up to you. You can decide if your ethics, morals, values and beliefs will distinguish between right and wrong. You can determine how you are going to treat others and let others treat you. You can deal with teen peer pressure and teen stress. You can develop confidence and learn it is more about what you think about yourself than what others think about you. In other words, we are telling you that it is OK, all right, fine, perfectly acceptable and your obligation to be yourself. Each choice you make in life as well as your happiness is up to you!
To help you, we suggest that you write down your list of teen values and beliefs, put them in a visible location to remind yourself every day and be confident in all the decisions that your make. Teen peer pressure and the effects of teen peer pressure will subside and you will have more happiness in life. As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.”
For more information and a template to write down your teen values and beliefs, please visit our website, http://www.liveourvalueseveryday.com/love-teens/

